In a month it will be a year since we have adopted our 2 year old dog. He’s really good about #2’s, but he has not improved at all with peeing in our condo. He’s walked 2-3 times a day and has plenty of play time/toys. He does have separation anxiety, but we’ve been pretty good about handling that and building his confidence as much as possible.
The main problem is he doesn’t really have any way of indicating that he has to go. He doesn’t do anything to bring attention to that fact, at least none that is distinguishable from him being very demanding of attention just for the sake of it. Yes, he’s still having trouble with obedience, but given how difficult he was when we got him, he’s improved immensely so far and hopefully a lot more time will get him more confident, happy and trusting of us. But yeah, he pees very discreetly pretty much on an every other day basis somewhere indoors or it even seems like if he doesn’t get his way, i.e., isn’t following the command we’re teaching him at the time preventing him from getting his treat, he will also pee.
Now I know the main method of correction is to stop and correct his behavior. It’s plastered in every book, every web site, etc…but this is incredibly difficult due to the fact that we’re five stories away from the ground and a large parking lot away from any grass. We have NEVER been able to correct when he incorrectly pees because there is just not enough time. Not enough time before he’s emptied his bladder. Not enough time before his doggie brain can retain the memory of wrong/right. The closest we’ve gotten is bolting out the door and running down flights of industrial stairs (dangerously) but he won’t be able to hold it anywhere past 5 car spaces in the parking lot.
What can those of us who live in metropolitan areas do to address this?
P.S. We have pee-pads for the winter when it’s just not plowed or safe enough for us to go out, but he really doesn’t choose ever to go on them. They only worked when we placed it in front of his crate and upon letting him out, he is so excited to be free that he just goes. Other than that, he’s crate-trained and has graduated to being able to hang out in the main space of my unit - no kitchen, no bedrooms, no office, no bathrooms unless invited…just living room/main open space.
@ladystang
I never stated that he does not get consistent training, exercise, socialization, grooming and vet care. He has had ALL of that consistently and scheduled. His walking regimen is scheduled. He pees and does his business each of these times fine. It’s the ADDITIONAL unwanted peeing indoors, despite that, that is the concern…and no way to correct it that I can find/come up with.
As for why before getting an unbroken dog…well here’s the brief:
#1. We had planned and prepared on getting a dog and once we met him discovered he would be put down the next day. He’s our dog/son. He’s not some toy to us…and being house-broken/not was not a dealbreaker for us.
#2. Despite you presuming zero thought was put into his adoption, on the contrary there was and remains to still be much. We’re very studious and thorough with our research on all things as well as any planning and preparation, decision-making not based on emotion, etc. I’m not sure how you came up with that assumptio
@ladystang (continued)
… I’m not sure how you came up with that assumption, but this household is very responsible with our decisions and choices.
I explained the why of the pee-pads existing. I posted a question here for help/advice/answers…the purpose and point of the site…not self-serving, self-validating uninitiated and unwarranted condescension, indiscriminate of reading comprehension.
@b.w.
Thank you! A bell is a great idea. Just set it up.
2-3 times a day is mainly because of our work hours. I run my own business so my hours fluctuate…when I can run home whenever, that’s great, but the other extreme can stretch my time away. My girlfriend has standard hours of work, but an 45 minutes away. She’s there if I can’t be in the late afternoon for a walk, but midday has been somewhat impossible. He usually goes in the morning, late afternoon and again at night before bed. We thought about a dog-walker, but of the ones we know of downtown, they’re either price-gauging while doing the least amount of work possible, or con-artists getting an "in" into the building.
@munchkin
Thank you. We will stop using the pads in the winter, though I can’t promise entirely, because we are right next to a Great Lake, like actually at the Lake and the only grass is even closer to the Lake. The first winter blizzard we opened the door and the Lake literally fell on us. He loves the snow, and its not that. Its walking through a blizzard or strong lake-winds 30MPH+ and the visibility-impairment, traffic, icy-not-level terrain and being blown by those winds. We both had lots of bruises and colds then, which started the padding, but yes, we will stop.
For @Wyr also, he is always crated when no one is around, no exceptions. His free reign in the condo is limited but always supervised and in line-of-sight. He’s never had accidents while we are away since he’s crated, so it has always been in our presence. @munchkin, I don’t know how you got your dog to stop peeing on command but ours is at about a 35% success rate. When we catch him in the act, we make a big spectacl
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When we catch him in the act, we make a big spectacle out of it and command him to stop, but the other 65% of the time he just will not. There was once a long time ago where he wouldn’t stop peeing, and I picked him up to be met by he peeing all over the dining table and walls through and along the path to a bathtub. Now when he’s caught in the act and does not stop, it has been yelling "bad", "stop", "naughty", along with any removal of toys/ignoring/shaming, but I think his anxiety makes him more scared at being yelled at that he just continues to go. He does have a psych vet and meds, and though has improved with meds and attentiveness to confidence-boosting reinforcement, the freaked-out shameful look on his face accompanying his accidents don’t seem to be subsiding.
We probably need a bigger crate to be able to lift him out, to correct his coming out and peeing. He’s a large dog, though at about 57lbs. With the current crate there’s no way to fit ourselves through
nor armspan to be able to pick him up. The crate is appropriate for his size, but the next size up would allow for that. The only other thing with his current crate is he is very possessive and protective of it, so when we do reach in for him or his bed or anything he gets scared and retreats as far back in as he can unreachable. We’re not entirely sure about his previous owner/life, but we have a pretty good feeling he was abused and is still wary of our outstretched arms. It has improved but we’re not exactly sure what subtleties are different in how our arms are stretching out towards him yet that triggers the scared reaction.
But yes, thank you for your guys advice and suggestions. We shall try out the diaper as well. Luckily the main space we allow him to roam when we’re here is hard-wood flooring. Hopefully the diapers along with eliminating the pads will persuade him not to pee so freely.
i have housebroken two dogs living in highrises, on the 9th floor and on the 21st floor … housebreaking a dog in an apartment building is exactly the same as housebreaking a dog in a house … you take them out … around the clock if you have to … you never wear just pajamas or underwear around the house, because you need to be ready to get on the elevator at a moments notice to take the dog out … and considering your dog is not housebroken, he should never be out of your sight … if you have to take a shower, he should be crated … and the pee pads are a big mistake because basically it has taught the dog inside is okay to go (for example, you said the dog would pee coming out of the crate, considering you know that fact, you should have not let the dog out, but put your hand in and lift the dog out so he would not have a chance to pee, and would have to wait while you carried him down) … i would lose the pee pads and living in canada i can assure you dogs can go out in the snow … and i am not sure what you mean there is no time to correct … if you see him going yell hey loudly to stop him and immediately take him for a walk and do not bring him back in until he has gone some more so you can praise … and you do not need a dog to tell you when to go out … i take my dog out on a schedule and unless she has diarrhea, she will not ask to go out, she will just wait, and she is now 12 years old … and every time the dog goes in the house is just making it harder to housebreak so don’t leave him unattended … you can even tie the dogs leash around your waist so the dog is always with you and you can watch … and depending on the size of your dog, if you catch in the act, you can pick the dog up, and carry in the elevator, and set down outside … i think you are close, just a closer eye on the dog and you will have him housebroken … and if not, there are always diapers … my partners son moved into a brand new condo and they did not want their new floors ruined by their dogs urine so they diapered the dog … it was effective …